Award nominated Sex Positive blogger, sex educator, and relationship analysis. With Nikki True Nothing Is Taboo
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Sweet girl I know you are still in love with your childs father, but trying to control HIS penis while you two are NOT together is a no no! It is very hard to have to let go and move on but it must be done. All you are doing is hurting yourself, and making your ex see why they left you in the first place.
Once you are single you can not dictate who your ex decides to sleep with or love. As far as your child you can ask to meet their significant other and you all have a conversation about the well being of your child, but you cannot keep your child away from the parent unless it is going to bring physical,mental, or sexual harm to THE CHILD not if you just dont like the person your ex is with.
You have to trust that your ex has as much love for your child as you do. When they prove they cannot be a responsible parent, go to the courts and take legal action.
P.S Tracy please memorize this Outkast lyric
“I’ll call before I come, I won’t just pop up over out the blue”
P.S.S men this also goes for you too. You cannot control your childs mother!